"I Hate Being Judged By People That Dont Even Know Me"

..Assalamualaikum everyone..

Alhamdulillah.. another chance again given by Allah to be able to update this blog.. actually I’m still trying my best to update this blog as frequently as I can, but i just have no chance to share what I’ve been doing lately, again, my “empty space” now had been filling with my family.. alhamdulillah.. that needs more attention than others..

OK.. lets get back to the topic "I Hate Being Judged By People That Don't Even Know Me"

Don't you 'hate' It when u are judged on every moment of your life.. Don't u feel Like just being yourself without being Judged and Just do whatever you want.. Without having to deal with any rejection, ridicule or other things (I guess i'm being Judged now?!?!).. why is that every words or action have to be carefully chosen so that u wont be judged wrongly?? I guess most of us hate it.. when we are trying to mean other things by your words or act.. But other people judge us based according to their own mental standards which is different from what we intended to convey..

Well i tell this to my self "People are naturally judgmental as we use the judgment of others to judge ourselves.. The real question is, why do I let other people's opinion bother ME??

"I am over being judged and so over being upset over what people may think of me"

This whole judging people thing has one problem to it that can't be easily fix. 
'We are human'
And people's will judge everything they see.. You do it, I do it, we all do it, without giving it a second thought.. The best way to deal with it is to not care. Who cares what people think about you.. You are you, that should be good enough for you.. 
If people judge you wrong, then live with it!! They are wrong, and it probably won't even effect you.. If it does, prove them wrong.. Just try to ignore the feeling, and live your life..!!

A handful of you are already stating with rebellious pride that you’ve never cared about what other people have thought.. For the moment, let’s all agree to ignore that bit of self-denial and contend with reality "you do care about what people think"

I’m not suggesting you stop caring about what people think.. I’m suggesting you start caring about what "you" think..

What people say about you is none of your business!!

Personally, I don’t think it is possible to completely stop caring what people think of us.. The best way to deal with this is to change your mindset and look for other areas of your life to focus on rather than caring so much about the opinions of others.. Most importantly, don’t forget the points made here. My main message is that life is too short to spend time worrying over things you can’t control, and issues that other people actually have.. 

Thank You For Reading  ^_^v

Motherhood

Assalamualaikum

Motherhood is an experience unlike any other on earth.

I love being a mother, and I have to say that Allah S.W.T has truly blessed me with the most important and fullfilling job ever created.. being a mother.. It is the most important thing in my life and makes everything I go through so worthwhile..

Being a mother means that I have had the opportunity to experience loving someone more than I love myself.. I have learned what it's like to experience joy and pain through someone else's life.. It has brought me pride and joy.. My son accomplishments touch me and thrill me like no one else's can.. It has brought me a few tears and heartaches at times, but it has taught me hope and patience.. It has shown me the depth, strength, and power of love..

Being a mother hasn't always been easy, and I'm sure I've said or done things that have hurt or confused my son.. But no one has ever made me as satisfied as my son do just by being happy.. No one's smile has ever warmed my heart like my son does.. No one's laughter fills my heart with delight as quickly as my son can and no one's hugs feel as sweet as my son do..

No other memories of bad times have miraculously turned into important lessons or humorous stories.. The good times have become precious treasures to relive again and again..

My son are a part of me, and no matter what happened in the past or what the future holds, My son are someone I will always accept, forgive, appreciate, adore, and love unconditionally..

Becoming a mother is a profound and unique adventure.. Motherhood is an experience unlike any other on earth.. There is nothing as profound, nothing that will stretch you so far beyond anything you previously imagined.. It is remarkably challenging, yet uniquely rewarding at the same time.. Other life experiences may bring you joy or fulfillment, or encourage you to grow, but none are on the same scale as becoming a mother..

When I began to write this blog, a few friend of mine in their mid twenties who does not have children or married yet asked me how I would describe the experience of becoming a mother.. It was a question that stopped me, after all, how could I describe the indescribable?? How could I put into words what it is like to be the shepherd, the guardian, and the caretaker of a tiny, helpless human being and to gradually wean and empower him to be able to live a healthy, happy, and successful life??

The answer is that there is no one definitive answer.. In its most elevated state, motherhood is awesome.. When you look up the definition of "awesome" the dictionary says "so impressive or overwhelming as to inspire a strong feeling of admiration or fear, grand, moving, frightening, majestic and lofty." This is the most inspirational element of motherhood-the soul-stirring aura of greatness that makes it so hard to define..

.. I am a mother that is still learning & hoping for the best..