Assalammualaikum
Hi all..
It's been a very long time I didn't update my blog, by writing this entries hope to gain back my momentum for writing.
BTW how are you? I hope we all are doing well.
LIFE IS HARD. HEALING HURTS. MOVING FORWARD IS SCARY.
How many times have you said, “Easier said than done?” Those words are often uttered after someone offers a suggestion or advice.
“Easier said than done,” as I’ve heard it and even used it, is offered as an excuse; it is a “get out of jail free” card.
After all, you can easily say it but doing it? Well, that’s far more difficult
Everything, I mean EVERY SINGLE THING in life is “easier said than done” until we do it.
Our internal dialogue goes something like this:
Losing weight? Easier said than done! Life changes? Yup, that too. Forgiving? Sounds simple enough, but feels totally impossible. Controlling your thoughts to stop obsessing about things you cannot change? Yeah, no. This is way too hard!
YES! nearly everything you can think of is easier said than done. But just because something is difficult doesn’t mean it’s impossible.
Words are meaningless unless they are backed up with action, EVERYONE knows that.
But, instead, we sit and talk and complain that we’re not happy because of so-and-so. And to change or work on ourselves is easier said than done. Whatever........
There is not one single person I know that has an amazing life that somewhere hasn't taken hard action and worked on themselves. A LOT. And none of them will tell you that it was easy. This life you have is short. Live, love and learn on your terms.
NEWS-FLASH : Everyone is struggle with their life.
While I may not know your exact situation, I’ve been there. I’ve been trapped by excuses, fear, and regret, brushing off my friends’ sage advice because it was just too much work to actually put into practice.
I’ve looked at the Facebook statuses and positive tweets from friends detailing how they got over only to think in my mind, yeah...... but it won’t work for me.
Though I’m certainly not perfect or where I want to be in life, making progress toward the vision I have for myself is 1000 times better than doing NOTHING!
So, what’s it going to be?
Are you going to look your fears and doubts and hang-ups in the face and get to work, or are you going to talk about how easy it all sounds, but never give it a try?
The choice is yours.
