Why I Blog

Assalamualaikum All

Hope you are doing good..

Recently, someone asked me why I blog.. After all, I don't get paid for it, and it's a lot of extra work added to an already crazy-busy life..

 I blog because i love to write, i like to express my thoughts/opinions and i having fun doing it..  I've always enjoyed words, reading and writing..

I believe when I started blogging I thought this would just be a great forum for my family and friends.. 

Now I am my own publisher.. My own journalist.. My own editorial page.. My own critic and book reviewer.. It's never boring. Or if it is, later I will write a entries about being bored HaHaHa..

I also share what I believe to be the truth.. I am not an expert in anything or everything, I'm just doing my best to inform others about things I've learned and know, then maybe I'm making a small difference in the world.. 

 I always write what's on my heart & not what I 'think' others want to hear..

I'm actually having fun doing this. You should try it.

I am who I am because of the good and the bad times in my life

Assalamualaikum everyone..

May Allah bless us today for the nice days ahead.. Start your day with Bismillah & always smile.. Everyday before my husband and i go to sleep we'd talk to each other about our day, our feelings, our problems, or about everything happen in our life, suddenly last night my spouse ask me "if i ever regret the choice i made in my past" 

One of the most difficult things to deal with in life is regret.. Sometimes something will happen, and you will respond in the wrong way, and for a while thereafter you will wish you had done it differently.. But eventually, you accept the experience as a lesson learned and you move on with your life..

The chances you didn’t take.. The decisions you waited too long to make.. The things you didn’t even try when you had the chance.. Those important words you left unspoken and deeds you left undone..

How many times have you heard the phrases “it’s all a part of your journey” or “struggle makes you stronger?” I can remember being told and also uttering these sayings to others.. They sound inspiring and hold a great truth..

Life is a journey filled with lessons, hardships, heartaches, joys, celebrations and special moments that will ultimately lead us to our destination, our purpose in life.. The road will not always be smooth in fact, throughout our travels, we will encounter many challenges..

Some of these challenges will test our courage, strengths, weaknesses, and faith.. Along the way, we may stumble upon obstacles that will come between the paths that we are destined to take.. In order to follow the right path, we must overcome these obstacles.. Sometimes these obstacles are really blessings in disguise, only we don't realize that at the time..

Along our journey we will be confronted with many situations, some will be filled with joy, and some will be filled with heartache.. How we react to what we are faced with determines what kind of outcome the rest of our journey through life will be like..

All my yesterdays, last weeks and last years have prepared me for all the tomorrows and next months and next years..

The mistakes have prepared me for others and the consequences of my actions..
All the troubles and hardship have shown me how good things can be when life is going right..

The cruel people I've met have taught me how not to be..
The friends I've made have shown me how wonderful life can be with good company..
The lies I've been told have made me grateful for the honesty I do recieve..

I am who I am because of the good and the bad times in my life.. Because of the kindness of people, the betrayal from friends, the people I miss and the things I've done..

The people that we meet on our journey, are people that we are destined to meet. Everybody comes into our lives for some reason or another and we don't always know their purpose until it is too late.. They all play some kind of role.. Some may stay for a lifetime.. others may only stay for a short while..

♥ Never regret anything, because at one time, it was exactly what you wanted..Learn from yesterday.. Live for today.. Hope for tomorrow..Life is too short to wake up with unnecessary regrets.. So, love the people who treat you right.. Forget about the ones who don’t.. Believe that everything happens for a reason.. If you get a chance-take it.. If it changes you-let it.. Nobody said it’d be easy, they just promised it’d be worth it..
It’s your life.. So live it.. "My Life or myself nowhere near perfect" I eat when I am bored.. I make up excuses for everything.. I have best friends and I have enemies.. I have drama and memories..  And that’s life.. Live it.. Love it.. Learn from it.. ♥

TYVM for reading ^_^v

"I Hate Being Judged By People That Dont Even Know Me"

..Assalamualaikum everyone..

Alhamdulillah.. another chance again given by Allah to be able to update this blog.. actually I’m still trying my best to update this blog as frequently as I can, but i just have no chance to share what I’ve been doing lately, again, my “empty space” now had been filling with my family.. alhamdulillah.. that needs more attention than others..

OK.. lets get back to the topic "I Hate Being Judged By People That Don't Even Know Me"

Don't you 'hate' It when u are judged on every moment of your life.. Don't u feel Like just being yourself without being Judged and Just do whatever you want.. Without having to deal with any rejection, ridicule or other things (I guess i'm being Judged now?!?!).. why is that every words or action have to be carefully chosen so that u wont be judged wrongly?? I guess most of us hate it.. when we are trying to mean other things by your words or act.. But other people judge us based according to their own mental standards which is different from what we intended to convey..

Well i tell this to my self "People are naturally judgmental as we use the judgment of others to judge ourselves.. The real question is, why do I let other people's opinion bother ME??

"I am over being judged and so over being upset over what people may think of me"

This whole judging people thing has one problem to it that can't be easily fix. 
'We are human'
And people's will judge everything they see.. You do it, I do it, we all do it, without giving it a second thought.. The best way to deal with it is to not care. Who cares what people think about you.. You are you, that should be good enough for you.. 
If people judge you wrong, then live with it!! They are wrong, and it probably won't even effect you.. If it does, prove them wrong.. Just try to ignore the feeling, and live your life..!!

A handful of you are already stating with rebellious pride that you’ve never cared about what other people have thought.. For the moment, let’s all agree to ignore that bit of self-denial and contend with reality "you do care about what people think"

I’m not suggesting you stop caring about what people think.. I’m suggesting you start caring about what "you" think..

What people say about you is none of your business!!

Personally, I don’t think it is possible to completely stop caring what people think of us.. The best way to deal with this is to change your mindset and look for other areas of your life to focus on rather than caring so much about the opinions of others.. Most importantly, don’t forget the points made here. My main message is that life is too short to spend time worrying over things you can’t control, and issues that other people actually have.. 

Thank You For Reading  ^_^v